Melanie Tonia Evans
Melanie Tonia Evans
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5 Things You Should NEVER Say to a Narcissist | Thriver TV
Have you ever felt like no matter what you say to a narcissist, they somehow twist your words and make things worse?
You’re not alone.
In this eye-opening episode of Thriver TV, I’ll reveal the 5 things you should NEVER say to a narcissist-and why these common mistakes can backfire in devastating ways.
💥 Learn how to protect yourself and reclaim your power by knowing what NOT to say, and more importantly, what to say instead. This advice could be the key to breaking free from the destructive cycles of manipulation and abuse.
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Much Love,
Melanie 🦋
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Breaking the Abuse Cycle: Meredith’s Path to Purpose
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.День назад
Are you feeling drained, lost, or overwhelmed by toxic relationships? You're not alone. Meredith once felt the same-trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and burnout. But her story didn’t end there. In this powerful Thriver Talk episode, Meredith shares how she transformed her life after narcissistic abuse. Through Quanta Freedom Healing™, she found clarity, reclaimed her purpose, and went on to man...
Why Narcissists Target You | Thriver TV
Просмотров 3,6 тыс.14 дней назад
Ever wondered why narcissists seem magnetically drawn to you, draining your light and energy when you know you’re meant for something greater? It’s not a coincidence. Narcissists are drawn to the light, and the larger your purpose, the more they may try to keep you stuck and suffering. But this pain isn’t just about struggle-it’s a signal of deeper significance. In this episode, you’ll uncover:...
From Codependent to Independent: Rowena’s Journey to Reclaiming Her Life
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.21 день назад
Rowena shares her powerful story in this latest Thriver Talk! 🌟 Hear how her toxic relationship with her mother set the stage early in life for a cycle of abuse that left her struggling with abusive relationships and codependency well into adulthood-and how finding the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program™ (NARP) supported Rowena to heal for real (from the inside out!) so could finally break the...
Faye’s Recovery from Narcissistic Father and Partner Abuse
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.Месяц назад
💕 Become a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) here: melanietoniaevans.com/narp ✨Read Thriver Lives Testimonials from our Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program™ (NARP) Community here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/thriverstories
How to Recover From Narcissistic Non-Apologies | Thriver TV
Просмотров 2 тыс.Месяц назад
Most narcissists point-blank REFUSE to apologize, and even when they do, it's often SO disingenuous! Have you ever felt more hurt after a narcissist's apology? After expressing your pain, you're blamed, bullied, and made to feel dramatic. Narcissists' apologies are insincere and manipulative, aimed at maintaining control. They are NOT interested in a genuine connection and resolution with you. ...
Narcissists and Codependents-What Unites Them? | Thriver TV
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.2 месяца назад
Ever thought narcissists and codependents are just opposites? The bottom line you haven’t been told the TRUTH about this! Think again! In a Quantum universe, like attracts like. It's their similarities, not just differences, that create their magnetic, yet often traumatic, unions. Join me as we uncover: The surprising similarities that draw narcissists and codependents together. The contrasting...
What Is The Narcissist Hiding? | Thriver TV
Просмотров 9 тыс.2 месяца назад
You sense something is wrong, but when you ask, you're met with deflections, diversions, and horrible accusations. Even when the truth comes out, the narcissist keeps lying and doubling down. How can you prove it? How can you survive the attacks aimed at you for what THEY did wrong? In this video learn how narcissists use specific tactics to hide their actions and how you can emerge healed, san...
Beyond Broken Details 🦋
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.2 месяца назад
Does your recovery from narcissistic abuse feel stuck, stunted, or non-existent? Are you amazed that, despite weeks, months, or even years, you're still battling the symptoms of abuse? Do you wonder if you'll ever feel "normal" again? Have you recovered, but at a significant personal cost? If so, this information is for you. Register for my FREE webinar "Beyond Broken" at www.melanietoniaevans....
The Narcissist and Their False Self | Thriver TV
Просмотров 5 тыс.2 месяца назад
In this episode we explored the topic of the narcissist and their False Self. What drives a narcissist? Why do they act the way they do? Are they aware of their actions? How can we elevate our consciousness to protect ourselves from narcissists? Many of you might have felt like you were looking into the eyes of someone who wasn’t truly there, almost as if possessed. I’ve felt this way, and I kn...
Is This Person a Narcissist? | Thriver TV
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.2 месяца назад
Welcome Dear Thrivers to Thriver TV! The term “narcissist” gets thrown around a lot, sometimes too frequently. It’s often used by people to label others when they disagree, and even narcissists use it to attack others. But what does it really mean? In this episode, I discuss the different levels of narcissism, from healthy self-interest to severe narcissistic behavior. Understanding these level...
The Narcissist Shattered Your Dreams | How To Recover | ThriverTV
Просмотров 2,8 тыс.2 месяца назад
The Narcissist Shattered Your Dreams | How To Recover | ThriverTV
What Type of Narcissist Are You Dealing With? | Thriver TV
Просмотров 2,5 тыс.3 месяца назад
What Type of Narcissist Are You Dealing With? | Thriver TV
Why Does the Narcissist's New Supply Get Everything I Wanted | Thriver TV
Просмотров 3,2 тыс.3 месяца назад
Why Does the Narcissist's New Supply Get Everything I Wanted | Thriver TV
How to stand in your power and win against toxic people and situations | Thriver TV
Просмотров 3,2 тыс.3 месяца назад
How to stand in your power and win against toxic people and situations | Thriver TV
Being a Female and NOT Knowing You Can Be Your Own Security
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.4 месяца назад
Being a Female and NOT Knowing You Can Be Your Own Security
Thriver Talk With Kristy
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.5 месяцев назад
Thriver Talk With Kristy
Narcissistic Abuse and Ascension - The Connection
Просмотров 2,8 тыс.7 месяцев назад
Narcissistic Abuse and Ascension - The Connection
Thriver TV Special
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.8 месяцев назад
Thriver TV Special
Day 5 - 5 Day Challenge - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.8 месяцев назад
Day 5 - 5 Day Challenge - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Day 4 - 5 Day Challange - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.9 месяцев назад
Day 4 - 5 Day Challange - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Day 3 - 5 Day Challange - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.9 месяцев назад
Day 3 - 5 Day Challange - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Day 2 - 5 Day Challange - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Просмотров 2,9 тыс.9 месяцев назад
Day 2 - 5 Day Challange - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Thriver Talk with Anita
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.9 месяцев назад
Thriver Talk with Anita
Day 1 - 5 Day Challange - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
Просмотров 3,6 тыс.9 месяцев назад
Day 1 - 5 Day Challange - "Healing Obsessive Thoughts"
THRIVER Talk with Lindsay: Living a “Double-Life”
Просмотров 2,1 тыс.10 месяцев назад
THRIVER Talk with Lindsay: Living a “Double-Life”
Healing Financial Prosperity After Abuse
Просмотров 2,8 тыс.11 месяцев назад
Healing Financial Prosperity After Abuse
Creating Thriving Relationships The Quantum Way - Part 3
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.11 месяцев назад
Creating Thriving Relationships The Quantum Way - Part 3
Creating Thriving Relationships The Quantum Way - Part 2
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.11 месяцев назад
Creating Thriving Relationships The Quantum Way - Part 2
Creating Thriving Relationships The Quantum Way - Part 1
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.11 месяцев назад
Creating Thriving Relationships The Quantum Way - Part 1

Комментарии

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me День назад

    Hands up

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me День назад

    Yes

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me День назад

    Me

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me День назад

    Yes

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me День назад

    Yes

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me День назад

    Thrive on

  • @CarolRemen-nt8wp
    @CarolRemen-nt8wp День назад

    Thank you for explaining about the liberation I needed to hear. It has helped tremendously. Your words brought more healing and peace to my very being.

  • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
    @user-ec5uh3qs1f День назад

    Do not give your pearls to the swine

  • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
    @user-ec5uh3qs1f День назад

    You know what I love. I love it when the lawyer knows he's dealing with that narcissist. And he tears them apart in court. And you could almost see the tears that want to come down. Because it's about winning, it's about a game they must have always was losing at the game or never picked or teased bullied something. They got so many dang-on issues. It's just they really need to go to therapy is some serious work that needs to be done. Something happened there and I believe they buried it so deep where they end up turning into this demonic narcissistic person. But there's a person in there if we could get back to the Innocence before all this stuff happened. Maybe the person needs some type of hypnosis or something done on them because there's a real person screaming to get out

  • @atum497
    @atum497 День назад

    Everything you said was absolutely true!

  • @Guddilove801
    @Guddilove801 День назад

    You are so on the ball.🙏 My husband just gives me the death stare after I question how he could hurt someone he loves and claims to protect. I'd be crying and so emotionally distressed and still he will not say sorry but gives me the this very frightening stare. 😱

  • @angelmoody8967
    @angelmoody8967 2 дня назад

    I've been doing some deep healing and cognitive thinking look up radical acceptance

  • @Eleinalove7
    @Eleinalove7 2 дня назад

    Lost whole life...

  • @marcuscollins7018
    @marcuscollins7018 2 дня назад

    Really good. You describe Donald Trump in great detail…

  • @TrinaWard-s8r
    @TrinaWard-s8r 3 дня назад

    Beyond broken - excited to learn your program - lymbic & somatic inner work ……. Yes !!! Inside job !!!

  • @TrinaWard-s8r
    @TrinaWard-s8r 3 дня назад

    Beyond broken - excited to learn your program - lymbic & somatic inner work ……. Yes !!! Inside job !!!

  • @TrinaWard-s8r
    @TrinaWard-s8r 3 дня назад

    Beyond broken - excited to learn your program - lymbic & somatic inner work ……. Yes !!! Inside job !!!

  • @TrinaWard-s8r
    @TrinaWard-s8r 3 дня назад

    BB

  • @Chez8922-kf6cy
    @Chez8922-kf6cy 3 дня назад

    Narcs are evil. They should all be exiled to a deserted island.

  • @CindyCyndiCinde
    @CindyCyndiCinde 3 дня назад

    This is not always true….. the ex Narc severely downgraded, When I saw what he found, I have not stopped laughing, he found himself a insecure, trash bin with extremely low self esteem that he knows will tolerate him forever, that is how bad she looks. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BetteRodgers
    @BetteRodgers 3 дня назад

    Bb

  • @sarafletch
    @sarafletch 3 дня назад

    This is so accurate I can’t even

  • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
    @HANZELVANDERLAAY 4 дня назад

    Hello🎉😂

  • @marialacen-vizcarrondo1863
    @marialacen-vizcarrondo1863 4 дня назад

    My son's father was abusive & a narsaccist. Both my son's have been abusive to me & their significant others. They both have identified with their father & as a result I've also lost my grandchildren. If I knew then what I know now I would have never had children with him. The harder the suffering the bigger the lesson.

  • @RoseannaCapon-Richards
    @RoseannaCapon-Richards 4 дня назад

    It takes so much time to ‘learn’ the correct way to deal with a narc Especially once you’ve long left but have to deal with children I remind myself “The only way to win is not to play” Which is reportedly what the computer said to itself when it tried to win a nuclear war Wish I could say I always remember. Often I forget and suffer the consequences then I’m back here for a revision course Melanie is the only teacher that knows truly how to help us

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans 2 дня назад

      Roseanna I'm very pleased that my material has been able to help guide you. Ideally id love for you to not need to revisit this information, because you have experienced your new empowerment 🎉❤ Are you a member of our wonderful NARP Community, where we can help support you to break through, for you, on the inside, so that you can leave this battle behind in the dust, and begin your True Thriving Life? If not, here is the NARP Program and Community information www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp I hope that this helps! 🦋❤️

  • @getrudemwaura946
    @getrudemwaura946 4 дня назад

    NL .🌹🌹🌹 Thank yoy🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 4 дня назад

    😂 oh yeah she will be soo happy 😂😂😂😂

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 4 дня назад

    Stop gaslighting yourself its going to be the same shit

  • @Wowsie1
    @Wowsie1 4 дня назад

    The goal is to never be duped by one again. Co-Dep's attract them.

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 4 дня назад

    Keep your for forgiveness to your self and God that it

  • @nikkid9915
    @nikkid9915 4 дня назад

    You are an earth angel 😇 I survived and thrive today because of your modules and eye-opening info. 10yrs ago I spent months doing the modules as many hours a day as I could. It was the only relief and understanding I had ever found. I was 44. I was determined to heal my past. My kids and I were relentlessly bullied for decades. Nowhere and no one was safe! Anxiety, fear, hopelessness & isolation almost did me(us)in more than once. My kids & I overcame shit only I or they know about as I couldn't explain what I couldn't understand. So much deceit... Every resource was used against us. I was trapped by in-laws who used "my past" slander, abuse & stalking, the family business, and the community they were "bullied" by🤥 to escalate the torture and prove we're evil. The masks fell as quickly as we'd overcome or succeed. If I wasn't "doing as expected" my kids would get immediate backlash at school or me at home. I pulled my youngest from the system 2 months before the end of gr.6. You offered the hope, tools, and answers I desperately needed. I haven't stopped healing since. Mastering myself has been a life mission. Quantum Healing is life changing. We were the ideal scapegoats and I refused to be or raise victims. No contact w/my family for decades and 8yrs w/his. I quit being the sheild for everyone! Then the real exposure blew my mind, broke my heart and shattered my reality. I kept healing amidst mind-blowing insanity. I KNOW WHO I AM!!!! If I can do this, anyone can! Thank you Melanie. I believe in humanity and will continue helping others believe in themselves. My inner child is safe, loved, and divinely guided. Sending so much love, healing, strength and respect to those going through it. Protecting my energy to find peace has me feeling younger, healthier and truly more hopeful and in love w/life than ever. Now those that were sucking my life force are aging rapidly, dealing w/haters, their addictions, mental and physical health, finances... 🤔everything they tried to do to us. We were repeatedly told "You should just let that shit slide off your back." Works for me😉

  • @allsouls5997
    @allsouls5997 4 дня назад

    There is a difference between passion for truth and those who are sneaky to gain produce.

  • @Poppy-yx8js
    @Poppy-yx8js 4 дня назад

    I don’t have a narcissist I have platforms stalking me - and locally I have stalking - vicious! And to cover up your own criminal behavior.

  • @CF-tp6sb
    @CF-tp6sb 5 дней назад

    Thrive on.

  • @user-pw6gn1zt2d
    @user-pw6gn1zt2d 5 дней назад

    Thank you, Angel 🙏🏻 you are saving souls and lives every day.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans 5 дней назад

      Awww it takes one to know one! Thank you for your comment ❤🦋

  • @user-pw6gn1zt2d
    @user-pw6gn1zt2d 5 дней назад

    Thrive on

  • @user-pw6gn1zt2d
    @user-pw6gn1zt2d 5 дней назад

    💯

  • @diyselfhelp
    @diyselfhelp 5 дней назад

    No matter what you say to a narcissist, they will warp it into an argument, blaming you, insulting you!

  • @diyselfhelp
    @diyselfhelp 5 дней назад

    When people have warped thinking, nothing you say will matter. You are better off talking to yourself.

  • @ekaterinanagornaya2601
    @ekaterinanagornaya2601 5 дней назад

    Thive on!!

  • @radzhurl8711
    @radzhurl8711 5 дней назад

    The trauma bond keeps you stuck, ive noticed that your lower self dominates your higher self and your mind keeps going to those endless questions...they dont like you as you tremendously like them, the guy that you very painfully watch them holding their hands is an option as will be and has been always, they are wired as such, they suffer and thinks thats the way. You are not the rescuer...its painful ...if yiu break from the trauma bond...100% can be done...you are free and much more than the past. Keep working hard and the results will ne more than amazing...i watch 100 Gurus on YT...they are absolute..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ to melanie.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans 5 дней назад

      Exactly! Once we heal the trauma bond we become healthier and happier than ever! ❤🦋

  • @ipell5280
    @ipell5280 5 дней назад

    Thank you so much Melanie! You are the world’s best healer in this area. I’m so grateful for your help. Hope we meet in ‘25.

  • @sharonducci7089
    @sharonducci7089 5 дней назад

    My children’s father was diagnosed by a professional psychiatrist as one of the worst narcissist cases he’d ever seen he’s been in business for over 40 years. He diagnosed me with post traumatic stress disorder so why is it that my children won’t talk to me won’t pick up the phone to say I love you I miss you don’t even acknowledge I’m alive when I stop co signing for their cars or their colleges, they just stopped talking to me like I had died they never called me back they never respond and one of them told me if I try to call her she will call a lawyer to have me put in jail whatever that meant

    • @sharonducci7089
      @sharonducci7089 5 дней назад

      I guess what I’m asking is at what point did I become the bad guy or did all my children become narcissist??

  • @terrysaunders4841
    @terrysaunders4841 5 дней назад

    BB

  • @amarbyrd2520
    @amarbyrd2520 5 дней назад

    Unsure Narcissists "show up to show us our patterns". Some of us have them for parents and didn't have any choice.

  • @thinkingallowed1st
    @thinkingallowed1st 5 дней назад

    How to explain reactive abuse after being gaslit?

  • @user-mv4zc7yp3l
    @user-mv4zc7yp3l 5 дней назад

    How do I cope when I know of the abuse or some of the abuse that happened to my adult son: isolated, framed, lied about, gaslighted, got committed, got into trouble with law, financial abuse, my son ended his life. Everyone believes and supports the abusive father including Authorities. How do I cope? I already said to the abuser that I'm going to expose him and that I've got his number and I have told other people. Over and over. I am blocked. I am exhausted, have nothing left. Nor did my son.

    • @andyanderson6522
      @andyanderson6522 5 дней назад

      GOD…. narc warfare is spiritual

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans 5 дней назад

      My heart goes out to you. This is awful. The solution is always the same. Heal ourselves and then all else can follow ❤🦋

  • @violettabicycletta331
    @violettabicycletta331 5 дней назад

    Brilliant this is so very true . Thank you ... living with one is difficult enough ... having the tools to deal with them is what you really need !. Thanks for your precious help!.

  • @orana1133
    @orana1133 5 дней назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @orana1133
    @orana1133 5 дней назад

    My "ex" roller coaster relationship. He still believes he can preach to me... 🚫